Archive | June, 2009

On one thing leading to another

28 Jun

A while ago, I wrote an article for my corporate blog, which (for now …) forms part of my day job, on the power of networking. Lately, I’ve been thinking about how potent it can be to keep an open mind and have an inquisitive spirit when you’re out and about and meet new people.

In the last few weeks and months, the following chain of events has happened to me.

In March, I spoke at an event for International Women’s Day. After my presentation, I got chatting with Christine, who is the chair of Women in Banking and Finance. A few days later, she emailed me and asked if we could catch up over coffee sometime, as she wanted to bounce around a few ideas with me. I’m always happy to meet for coffee, so we did, got along very well and exchanged some interesting thoughts and suggestions.

Fast forward to the end of May and Christine invited me to attend the Women in Banking and Finance annual lunch at the Dorchester in central London. Along I went, wondering who, if anyone, I would know – to which the answer was, aside from Christine, not a soul. But that was OK – because sometimes, when at these events, it can be all too easy to stick chatting to the people who you do know and not emerge from your comfort zone in order to meet new acquaintances.

But I was forced out of my fur lined rut, and so I chatted and mingled and went through to the lunch – where I had the huge good fortune to be seated adjacent to two absorbing women. They both run their own very different gender diversity consulting firms, and are so well connected that I have Address Book Envy.

As if a wonderful venue, delightful lunch companions, and a spirited speech (in which she called for quotas for women in leadership roles) from keynote speaker Baroness Denise Kingsmill (reported here in the Guardian) wasn’t enough, I also won a prize in the raffle, thus continuing the recent winning streak with which I’ve been blessed, having won a couple of global diversity awards lately. But the luck didn’t end there, as Pauline, my neighbour at the table, also won a prize, as did one of the other guests at table 16. I won a designer silk dress, Pauline won dinner for 6 at a top London restaurant and the other lady (another Pauline, #2) won a huge bouquet of flowers.

Then Pauline #1, who runs a fascinating company called Gender Dynamics, and I discovered that we are actually neighbours in the same suburb of London, so we agreed to meet for, yes, coffee and learn more about each other’s roles and interests. And when we did so, Pauline mentioned that, in her experience, women tend to be very open to the idea of just getting together to bounce ideas around without there being a clear agenda or a defined objective or gain, whereas some men would only go ahead with a similar meeting if there was a very clear idea of what was in it for them at the outset.

Over skinny lattes, Pauline and I discussed our ideas and interests in women, business, leadership, success and so on. She also asked me if I would like to learn more about the Downing Street Project (DSP); to which my response was: “Is that similar to the White House Project? I (corporate) blogged about that last year …”

And yes, it is indeed a UK version of the successful and high profile White House Project; in a nutshell, it’s a UK based, cross party political supported initiative aimed at promoting and enabling “balanced leadership between men and women at every level of society, up to and including 10 Downing Street.”

Downing Street

Pauline then threw open her famed address book even more widely and introduced me to both Lee Chalmers, the director and founder of the DSP and also to Donna Thomson, the wife of the Canadian Ambassador to Britain; she is very active in the whole women in business and women as a force for change space. Pauline, Lee and I had afternoon tea at the “residency” earlier this week and talked about our various projects; these included the Downing Street Project (Lee), a film on gender (me) and a report called the “Leaking Pipeline” (also me); Pauline’s work on gender and biology and Donna’s involvement with the forthcoming UN Agency for Women, which is due to be launched in January 2010.

… And I am now scheduled to attend the DSP’s launch event at the House of Commons on Tuesday evening.

And all of this has come from chatting to Christine back in March ….

If any of these contacts result in a new job for me, I think I’ll send Christine flowers.

On bias and the value of difference

16 Jun

Is it possible for an Asian man to be prejudiced against Asian people? For a woman to show bias against other women? Well, according to Professor Binna Kandola, it is. And, in his new book, “The Value of Difference”, which he wrote as a way of re-energising the diversity debate and providing some practical solutions and actions, he explains not only how we can learn to recognise and acknowledge that we are all, in different ways, guilty of bias but also how we can work to overcome it.

I recently attended the UK launch of the book (sub-titled: “eliminating bias in organisations”) – and I managed to score not one but TWO signed copies. I appreciate a free book – and I love two free books quite possibly more than life itself, so it was a highly successful evening from my point of view. I am definitely biased in favour of events which give away books

The occasion began with a description of Binna’s work to date in the area of bias awareness; an approach which begins by acknowledging that practical changes don’t always make as large an impact or change the culture of an organisation in the way that we imagine they would or should – and this is true for society as a whole, as evidenced by the continuing need for rafts of anti-discrimination legislation in countries around the world. We always hope, rely on and assume that each new generation coming through will evoke change – but yet, in spite of ourselves, people are the issue, not the solution.

And, if we acknowledge that positive change will not just happen on its own, then designing and running some positive “bias awareness” training, as Binna recommends that organisations do, is one approach to taking charge of a situation and creating progress via people.

Binna told the audience that, in spite of ourselves, when we meet people for the first time, we register their colour – followed by other visual “clues” about them, such as their age, gender, hair colour, disability status and so on. And these behaviours and “registrations” may be unconscious, and even benign, but are not random; they happen to us all because of our backgrounds and influences. Last year, I visited India on business and wrote at the time in my corporate blog that I felt very self-conscious being a tall, white woman in “western” dress whilst in Delhi. I don’t believe that I was showing negative bias but I know that I was very aware of my status and height – but then again, according to Prof. Kandola, nobody ever believes that they personally are displaying bias …

“The Value of Difference” has been endorsed by Trevor Phillips, Chair of the Equality and Human Rights Commission, who managed to extricate himself from the extremely high profile (in the UK, at least) discussions currently happening in our political world with regard to MPs’ expenses in order to join us (declaring that “It’s frankly mayhem out there!”) and describe why he was supporting what he described as “an important book, and one which people may find controversial.”

He continued by noting that “there is a sense that we, as a country are changing …” and shared a story in which he recollected a recent event at which he was the only person of colour amongst a crowd of 200 people. He was not uncomfortable (although he was obviously aware) in this environment, but it prompted him to observe that:

“ … many more of us are much more comfortable with differences than ever before – and yet we rarely see people from minorities in positions of influence and power. And we still haven’t managed to crack the cultural, social and behavioural issues which impede progress.”

Paraphrasing Rahm Emanuel’s edict of “never letting a good crisis go to waste”, he asked the audience to consider how we can create social and organisational benefits from “this enforced shake out” and suggested that we now need a new framework for cultural change: how do we take advantage of all of the talent – and not just work with the people who resemble ourselves? Bias awareness is one of the keys to creating this new framework, and Binna’s book:

“… brings science into diversity and equality, providing us with a new tool to help us deal with tackling bias.”

Trevor handed over to PwC UK Advisory Partner Paul Cleal, who talked a little about his own dual-heritage background and shared the story of being one of the first Black partners in the UK firm and how he has been working with the leadership team to ensure that they really do understand the nature of bias. Returning to Trevor’s description of the book as “controversial”, Paul suggested that the most contentious idea comes from the statement that bias “ … isn’t just about the bad guys – it’s about you and me.”

And Binna confirmed this, adding that he didn’t:

“ … blame people for being biased; but I do blame them for not taking action.”

Paul wrapped up the event by suggesting that one of the most influential mechanisms of change within an organisation can come about when you combine the power of the story with the strength of facts and data. So I’m very much looking forward to getting stuck into what Trevor Phillips has described as “essential reading” and will report back here with a review once I’ve done so.

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